Men and women are different! Men are brought up to be independent and strong. They are told to handle things and keep their emotions inside. What happens is that men grow up not knowing what they are feeling or needing and they have no knowledge of how to share their feelings nor do they believe they should.
Women on the other hand are taught from an early age to care about relationships and to want to connect with others. They feel alone when their men don’t share intimate thoughts with them.
Women want to connect to their men and men want their women to be happy and pleased. How do I get this relationship to be satisfying for both partners? How can we learn to connect you ask…
Go to any bookstore or library and pick up the book, How Do I Get Through To You by Terrance Real. You’ll find some answers there. If you’d like to try couple’s therapy and learn these skills first hand feel free to call my office at 626-335-0903. I am located in Glendora. I’d be happy to meet with you and discuss what’s interfering with the solid connection you both want.