Are You Looking for the Man of Your Dreams? Or the Girl…? 9 Things to Think About, By Ilissa Banhazl, MFT, San Dimas

Do your work before he or she comes along!

Do your work before he or she comes along!

Why not look for the man or woman of you dreams! Why not share your life with someone? Don’t give up hope. It may take time to meet the right one. Don’t buy into how difficult it is to meet someone. Each person and situation is unique. In the meantime, here’s what you do:

1. Get an education, a trade, a career or a job.

2. Take good care of yourself mentally and physically.

3. Surround yourself with friends and family who care about you and enjoy doing things.

4. Decide your goals for the next 5 years.

5. Develop interests and hobbies.

6. Learn how to be alone without being lonely.

7. Become financially independent.

8. Give off an aura of interest and openness.

9. Learn how to be a good listener and an even better communicator.

When you become a complete and happy person on your own; you have a good chance of meeting the right one!

It’s an energy that you put out there that attracts people to you. You just never know when it will happen. So keep the faith and create your own life now!

Counseling for singles and dating>>>

About Ilissa Banhazl

Ilissa Banhazl is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist, former grade school teacher and holds a masters degree in reading. She has a private practice in Glendora, CA and lives in the Los Angeles area with her husband and three children. She specializes in adult, adolescent, individual, couple, and family relationship counseling as well as eating disorder treatment and recovery. She facilitates a Women’s Support Group in Glendora as well as a Women’s Disordered Eating & Body Image Group. Ilissa authors 3 therapy blogs, Marriage and Family, Eating Disorders and Group Therapy. You can follow her at FB and Twitter. or
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