Category Archives: bullying

When Is It Time To Leave Your Relationship? By Ilissa Banhazl, MFT- Part I

There are times when there is no question whether to leave or stay. See if your relationship contains any of the following characteristics. My partner… 1. Emotionally abuses me by calling me hurtful names like stupid, fat or ugly, etc.. … Continue reading

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Back to Work on Monday!

Anyone needing answers regarding what to expect in therapy, fees, insurance, confidentiality and more can call my office starting this week.¬†Please call my office in Glendora at 626-335-0903. I will return your call as soon as I can. Issues I … Continue reading

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Is Your Child Cutting? Are you Sure?

By Ilissa Banhazl, MFT- Something new after the Baby Boomer Generation is young people cutting themselves. While working with many teens and younger children I have found that they are engaging in cutting behavior because they are in extreme pain … Continue reading

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You Must See The Film “Bully” and Bring Your Children!

Written by Ilissa¬†Banhazl, MFT- I saw the film “Bully” yesterday at the Laemmle theatre in Claremont. It was very good. You really should take your children to see it and talk about it afterwards. It was sad but the situation … Continue reading

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Why The Bully At Your Child’s/Teen’s School Is A Bully!

Written by Ilissa Banhazl, MFT- So your child is being bullied or maybe your child is the bully. Let’s talk about reasons why a child might bully another child. Maybe he or she… – is lonely – is sad – … Continue reading

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Helping Your Child Stand Up to a Bully- Part 3

Written by Ilissa Banhazl, MFT- I want to share a wonderful book that you can share with your tween/teen. I believe it’s appropriate for any child between 8 and 14 years old. It’s directed towards girls and it’s put out … Continue reading

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